Tuesday, June 07, 2005
Revelations and Legend in China
Hmmm, having a new Girlfriend keeps one busy, especially when one has been a bachelor for a while and the accommodations have to be brought up to spec.I had left my last post possibly suggesting I was in for a tongue lashing from Nian, and she might have been slightly unhappy with me, but forgave my negligence quickly.
I started to write about two significant events between Nian and myself over the last two weekends, but somehow I just couldn’t find the right tone, so I’m starting over.
We’ll start with some of the more important stuff first. Somehow I have failed to ask Nian if she has any children. I was of the impression she had none, but I’m not sure why, maybe just because none where evident after dating a week or two. So she asked me weekend before last why I hadn’t asked about whether she had any children. It turns out she has a 1 ½ year old daughter back in China staying with her parents until her return from her short exchange stay with the U of I is over. So Nian is definitely heading back to China in August. Our relationship has become quite close quite quickly and we are talking very serious plans, but August fills Nian with a lot of anxiety with regards to where we will go from here. We are all but officially promised to wed in November, which would entail me making a trip to China, and her coming back to the US to live after some six-month obligation is filled for her school.
A casual US reader might assume Nian is anxious to live here in America, but this is actually probably not the case, though there are cultural reasons that made her life more difficult in China as a single parent than probably single moms find here in America when it comes to finding the right person. Her life has also had some ups and downs with respect to family obligations (real or imagined) that I won’t go into. So she wasn’t looking for an American husband, but I just sort of came along after some Chinese men had pretty much treated her pretty badly. Her ideal would be to pack me back up with her to China permanently, and for her to support us both if need be (she does have a Masters after all, and a PHD in the works). It also seems she wants more than the one child she already has, and this is another motivating factor, as I provide and end-around-run past the One-Child policy of China even if we moved there.
OK, now on to some less serious stuff, and I have gotten Nian’s permission to write on this subject. It would seem Nian blogs in Chinese, and has a much larger readership than I do, at least for her latest installments. She has gotten thousands of hits each with her last couple of entries about her nervousness about accommodating my “Large Penis” when we make love. She has only had two boyfriends (the last abandoning her with child) so I can’t really say I’m much better endowed that most Chinese, what with Nian only having a sample size of two, but there is some small percentage of Chinese (maybe .000003 %) that now think I have stud like proportions. Her second posting was about how it was indeed uncomfortable the first time or two, but has now settled down into a great source of pleasure. I can’t really say I’ve garnered this kind of praise from many American women. For Chinese women however it would seem to be a case of: “Once you had Larry, it ain’t too Scary.”
Well, that’s enough for now. Sorry I haven’t posted in a while, but as you can see life has been busy. I’m sure I’ll be posting with better regularity again soon. In fact Nian kind of insists on it. I wouldn’t say she nags me a about a great many things, but she is on me everyday to clean up my back “Junk Room,” so if I go MIA again you’ll know she’s locked me in back there and won’t let me out until I’m done.
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2 Comments:
That is a lot of information, Larry. Should this not work out, you will be very popular at the night clubs in China I suspect.
By KJ, at June 08, 2005
Jeeze man you should slow down. Focus on the journey, not the desination.
By , at June 08, 2005
